Wednesday, November 25, 2015

could have been....

i'm pretty sure i could have been a wrestler.  i'm fairly certain actually.  ahhhh....the beauty of my own healthy imagination and perception, right??  haha...plus, who can argue with hypothetical?  it's perfect...i can just about picture the medals, the podiums~ yes- with some good coaching, and a bit of determination i think i could have been okay at it!  if only it was a competitive option for girls back when i was the age of my own scrappy ones.  i even remember play-wrestling with a dear childhood friend in her unfinished basement.  we simply copied our big brothers.  and they were always roughhousing.  Karen is a super strong lady today~ she for sure would have been a fierce contender.  she is physically and mentally tough, and super sweet as well.  nice combination...we could have been a force together on a highschool team.  i just know it.  :) :)  oh how i wish...


 for now, the three oldest will randomly and spontaneously battle me in the family room, or wherever there is open space. 

it usually unfolds something like this.  


and in these moments i love to imagine the real-deal matches that could have been.  i do think my girls are especially fortunate to participate in this sport.  and wrestling season is officially underway.  i'll be the "wrestling wannabe" cheering from the edge of the mat, with butterflies in my stomach and tension in my neck muscles, all the while living vicariously through their adventures and celebrating their own amazing opportunities...can't wait!

Wednesday, November 18, 2015

reunited

this is special. like so seriously off-the-charts awesome!!  it made my month of October~ a total highlight.  but first the back-story must be explained.
  
when Jeff and i were dating, some time before our own tribe of children arrived, we decided to sponsor a child through the amazing organization of Compassion.  these people, this mission, this working model of releasing children from poverty through Jesus' name~ well, it is a beautiful thing to see when hope and purpose is restored and the real life-changing love of God is experienced first-hand~ by sooo many children for the very first time.
   
so, we began sponsorship of a precious boy at that time.  he was from the country of Bolivia, and his eyes were beautiful, dark and tentative. he was nine years old. 


 Johnny looked unsure of exactly what to make of having his picture taken by the workers that day.  i wish i could know what his heart was feeling on that very day, in that moment...he was probably brand new to the Compassion project in his village, yet perhaps feeling hopeful that this would be a good thing for him, that his future was a bit more secure by having the project workers there and involved in his life. 

from our end, Jeff and i were invested from the first look at his sweet face.  Johnny became more and more like our sponsored Bolivian son.  his name was regularly spoken during our prayers, we wrote letters and always anticipated the annual update picture to see his progress.  as Johnny grew he would sometimes share his future plans and desires as it related to school and future career.  he began to dream and plan and see options as real and open to him.  and then one day we were told that Johnny was old enough to graduate out of Compassion's program, and we were given the option of selecting a new child to sponsor.  this was over a decade ago now, and naturally, we lost touch with Johnny, but never once forgetting him and wondering from time to time where life had taken him.
  
until last month.  oh my heart.  i received a text from Jeff showing a screenshot of Johnny's Facebook profile, saying "Look who i got a friend request from!!"

real tears.....there was our "little Johnny", all grown up and now a young man living life and looking healthy and well and happy.  let me say, seeing him, seeing his photos once again~ it was incredibly exciting and heart warming.  i felt very parental in that moment too~ like a mom beaming for a grown child she'd let out from her nest, with the huge satisfaction of knowing that all appeared well.  so very nice....i'm so grateful God has had a clear hand on his life....

we quickly connected over Messenger (and thus my love/hate relationship with Facebook continues).  still, on that day and each since, i've been super thankful for the means to converse instantly and at no cost.  pretty neat.  Johnny has graciously shared with me his perspective of Compassion, of being a part of the project there in Bolivia, and how that shaped his childhood, his future, and even rippled out to his family members in various ways.  he has really good memories of Compassion that were obviously sweet to hear. 

this has renewed my faith and commitment in a worthy charity such as Compassion.  they are making a giant difference in this world.   Johnny is doing well.  my heart is full.    

Tuesday, November 10, 2015

cross country

dedication, perseverance, hard work, mental toughness....all words that accurately describe a cross country runner.  my crew of six just finished their 2015 season at their respective schools.  they had to grind out a long list of practice days, lots of unpredictable weather ranging from too hot to rainy, cold and blustery.  some days i felt bad for them having to lace up and hit the road for practices.  i'm so much more of a "must have the perfect weather conditions" kind of runner.  far from die-hard, that's for sure.  all six have varying opinions on the sport as well~ ranging from "i actually hate running" to "i love this and am sad it's over".  i get that.  even still, so much is learned in the process of belonging to a school team, working hard at being your best version of you in the sport, and competing against others who have shown up to race.  after all, i'd say just being there to run is a victory in itself!


on this day, it was gorgeous outside....Joelle had her best season yet, pushed forward by more training and discipline...her last as a highschool senior!


Hannah appears so have mastered a beautiful smile while in running motion and pain.  not sure how that happened.  she appears to be loving every second, but i can assure you she is not.  she did it though, and i'm proud of that for sure.


Adam's first year competing at the highschool level.  he'd definitely rather be wrestling.  he did really enjoy the bus trips to out-of-town meets and time with his friends on the team.  fun memories!  can't believe he's in highschool....


AJ was certain he'd be "crushed" based on his age.  as it turns out, he did run with nine year olds while he is only eight.  we reminded him that he was Ethiopian~ therefore getting "crushed" wasn't in the equation...so when the race marshal walked the start line asking the four fastest from each school to be in the front row and the four slowest to make a second row behind them, AJ was certain he was "front row worthy"...confidence of his father i'd say... :)



Layla lives and breathes race day.  no mention of nerves, just happy to hit the course.  she loves it and is always sad when the season is over.  i could see her doing a half-marathon with Jeff one day.


Hudson placed individually and with his team...he looked strong and happy with his finishes...he always seems to have some "finishing speed" which helps a lot when exhaustion sets in for so many others. 

                                                     
as we've told them a zillion times, this running thing is all about personal bests.  and we saw lots of that this year.  they worked out their cardiovascular systems, contributed to a team and saw what they were capable of.  so good...

up next....drum roll...wrestling!!    



Tuesday, November 3, 2015

boy happenings

so, this is late.  really late....another end of August happening being posted way after the fact.  but hey, in ten years, who is going to notice or care?  this blog is a rolling record primarily for my kids, to look back and soak up their childlike cuteness, to remember key events and great life highlights...these snapshots in time are "timeless".  the one below is a pre-game pose from my baseball loving boys.  posing for their sister like real-deal serious threats...makes me look forward to baseball next spring already...


and this also happened a few weeks ago.  Jeff and Adam were so excited to head off to a Lions game one Sunday~ and both loved the whole football experience.  it was their first live NFL game, and i think it will be a memory they enjoy for years to come....


i would have enjoyed that pizza :) ....so happy they could...




post-game prayer huddle....awesome!!


love these four boys so much!  thankful for shared life experiences of fun and leisure and excitement sprinkled through our day-to-day.