first tournament

Cree's first tournament...unofficially official at least...it was adorable...and special and huge to these three amateur wrestlers.  they were both friends and competitors on this day, and just taking in all the parts as though they had "arrived".  heart melting on many levels.  the referees were supportive and played the part perfectly.  memories were made.

actual medals?!  our friend had the bright idea to have someone present the smallest competitors with medals.  their surprise and outward expression of pride and joy was delightful.

a good day for a few solid wrestlers who are tapping into some real potential, but most of all having lots of fun!

throwback

 just a photo that came up in my memories.  melted my heart.  this one, taken a couple of weeks after Cree came to us, and we had zero awareness of what was to come.  little did we know that he'd be the kid to launch us into "parenting 2.0".  who knew?! 

we were already in love, however.  so smitten with all that he was.  pure squish and love in that tiny body of his. 

then and now... 

still, the ultimate gift! ❤

winter things

 a bit of a photo dump from bits of January and February. 

Jessie love, lots of baking with my assistant, birthdays, Valentine's Day, creative play, reunions, and the cafe taking shape!  grateful for life lived!

winter things.  much to be thankful for even in the dead of a cold and blustery season.  thankfully, we got through it.  warm and sunny days ahead, and i CANNOT WAIT!

Jeffrey

 he's not one to gush.  but he might not mind if i gush a bit about him.  today he has a birthday.  in his birthday note i told him that often his birthday feels like more of a notable occasion to me than my own birthday, because i'm literally so thankful for the gift he is to me. (and it's not like one can feel like they are a gift to themselves!  well, most people at least! ahem...;))  seriously, God knew.  He chose for me a solid man who is so faithful and kind.  i love that his character is super steadfast.  he is a light bringer.  i love his humour and his positivity.  i love his character, his work ethic, and his consistent willingness to show-up for his family.  he is unwavering of his supportive love to me (seriously, a puppy and a Peloton?!), and he regularly chooses to champion things of Christ.  

we've been at this a long time.  he's my best friend, and i'm really grateful for his 57 years.  i'm staying on this rollercoaster ride with him~ that much i know.

in the words of Gabby Barrett's cool country song, he's "solid and he's steady" and he's one of the good ones.

happy birthday Jeff!

Home stretch

 Layla is on the home stretch.  in less than a month she'll be boarding a plane and taking with her all the parts and pieces that she'll forever hold in her heart from the past five and a half months with YWAM.  both Hawaii and Tanzania have been amazing times for her.  she'll certainly leave a part of her heart behind, i expect.  she's had so many meaningful connections with staff and new friends and the sweetest children.  her blog has beautifully articulated her journey so far, so feel free to catch up with her there... 

In the Lay of Things

i know i would have absolutely thrived with such an opportunity at that age.  it would have sunk in deep and shaped me forever.  we will always be grateful for the opportunity she's had to go.  to learn and grow and serve and become.  so many supported her in so many different ways to help facilitate this journey.  thank-you if that has been you.  God has been sooo good.

i'm soo looking forward to having her under the same roof again! 

finish well, Lay!  shine on...❤

it's just a number

 apparently age really is just a number.  here's my dad.  on the ice with Cree.

by his own description~ he felt rusty.  but then, so did i this year.  not at all like the four year old whippersnapper seen above.  or his 17 and 19 year old brothers.  they really make it look so easy.  effortless even.

still, dad wins the award for getting out there and giving it a go.  in a decade of his own.  

he's inspiring. ❤

this rings true

sometimes you read things that are countercultural, but refreshing and actually true.  something that jumps off a page or screen and stops you short.  it's often different than the popular message, the trendy philosophy of the day or the catchy narrative used to dress up deceptive lies that society adopts as truth.  

this happened to me the other day on Instagram, of all places.  (sooo, i held out on joining Instagram for a good long while, but when Layla mentioned her Tanzania team would be posting news there, i caved and opened my own account).  well, you know how smart that social media algorithm is, right?!  just linger over a quote or a reel for a second longer than normal and your feed is forever bombarded with similar posts.  it can be good, and it can be maddening.  for example, i watched one reel about a rescue of a dog living in horrible conditions and horrendous suffering and the IG or Facebook platform assumes i want to see such videos each and every day.  but i don't.  just cute puppies and babies~ more of those ones please...

recently, however, i did read these words.  i like the truth they contain.

five things Jesus did not say...

"Follow your heart"

Jesus said, "Pick up your cross and follow ME"

"Be true to yourself"

Jesus said, "Whoever wants to be my disciple must deny himself"

"Believe in yourself"

Jesus said, "Believe in me"

"Live your truth"

Jesus said, "I am the truth"

"As long as you are happy"

Jesus said, "What will it profit a man if he gains the world but loses his soul"

i don't know who to credit for this, but to me it's really good.  truth i know to be real and evident in my own life experiences.  always a good reminder for me too.  God's word doesn't change.  culture and societal trends certainly do, at a blurring speed sometimes.   

but the words of Jesus are good and true and you can take them to the bank.  His heart for you is good, and His desire is for you to know Him.  so thankful i do.  

have burning questions?  a great starting point is a book by Rick Warren called The Purpose Driven Life: What On Earth Am I Here For?  it's a literal gem.